No one ever expanded themselves or our world by thinking small. Playing the easy game does not advance you! Fear is one of the biggest issues that stop any of us from achieving the goals and life we desire to have. Think of fear as the darker side of life and love as the higher route to great living.
Start by loving yourself. Learn this concept quickly and work on it daily. We live in a society that continually drags us down. It takes work to get the inner work accomplished. This is where a great counselor comes in!
Continue by refusing to hate anything! The other day I saw a graphic that said "I hate nothing about you." I loved this because it expands our minds to the concept of loving others instead of hating anyone. If there is hatred in the heart of anyone then no dream will be accomplished. It's like a weed that propgates nothing but more negativity in life. It will zap the positive energy that you generate and your dreams will be squashed!
Thinking out of the box really helps but I want to challenge you to thing bigger! If there is a dream, a healing, a change, or a transformation that is being sought, think bigger than the biggest thing desired. It is the only way to stretch yourself so you will grow into your dreams!
Be determined to do the work and refuse to give up. Determination is something we all need. No dream just appear, and no healing just happens. We have to be determined and do the work that is required to get the job done!
Spend the funds and hire someone who will take you to the next level and hold you accountable! YOU can do this! Whatever it is that is holding you back, a good counselor or life coach can help drag it out of you to take a good look at it. It is not as scary as you think! I promise.
With you in determination!
Dr Jenine Marie Howry, PhD